When marriage is new between any two people we are convinced that we married the only purfect person on earth. Fact is, in a very short amount of time we all learn that in fact, we married a person that while he or she is the only one in the world we want to be with; we still married a person, who like anyone else has faults and shortcomings. So it's important to understand that mortal misunderstandings can make mischief in a marriage. In fact, each marriage starts with two built-in handicaps. It involves two imperfect people. Happiness can come to them only through their earnest effort. Just as harmony comes from an orchestra only when its members make a concerted effort, so harmony in marriage also requires a concerted effort. That effort will succeed if each partner will minimize personal demands and maximize actions of loving selflessness.